Thursday 16 October 2014

What you learned from a big disappointment.?


 A regular question people might ask themselves of "What have 

they learned from being getting disappointed?'
Right..
Think a minute Have you?

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Well, honestly I have.
I have been into too much of disappointments in my life either be it studies, friends, career, relation or what not a common person goes through in a single day every moment.



Starting up with Studies...
Not everyone is born intelligent. Not everyone is made to top the class. Not everyone enjoys studying. Not everyone is a master in Science or maths or any subject.
Everyone has a subject to hate be it practical or theory or mathematics.
I had it all. I hated studying but I loved Music.
May be it was something I was made of. Yes, I know you must be wondering how can one just become a graduate when she only loved singing.
Well, here the point is I changed my point of view of hating studying to be a great singer while not lacking behind in my Grades also. This made me work on my grades more, and enjoy my singing career too. I got a leap in my school from being shy to being a part of the school choir to being the First lead singer of the school. I represented my school at various levels and the biggest achievement is when everyone around me remembered me as the SINGING GIRL OF THE SCHOOL. The confidence I gained their reflected in my grades and I scored much high than my expectations.

Friends, the second thing any youngster thinks about. I always had a problem to carry on my friendships for long time due to my being quite nature all the time. But never loosing hope and always continuing to be my best was my strength. I learned that although I was quite and was usually misinterpreted by others I used to be the one people looked upon at their time of need. I have lost many friends during my journey of life, I even have met the most amazing people too but have lost the gems too. But, loosing someone in your life doesn't mean that it was not right that I knew that person but it meant that their role in our lives was meant to be only little and yet they had to leave without any reason.

Career, the third thing, I always wanted to do JOURNALISM AND MASS COMMUNICATION but hated studying. I was disappointed for not being good enough to get into it. I learned that when you don't give up you surely get what you want and the happiness of that thing is much more than what could have been if you would have got it easily.

Relation, the last thing on my list here. Although the list is endless but for my blog I would like to end it here only.
Relationships, everyone wants to get one, a one where both dream it to be fairy tale but most of us had it as a nightmare.
Don't laugh here. I had it a nightmare.
I never found a true love, when I thought I had it din't worked out. Eventually, we both moved out of it. It doesn't mean the love has ended but the things that follow them eventually tells you that " IT WOULD HAVE BEEN BETTER IF I HAD NEVER MET HIM" but atleast it taught me that this "LOVE" thing do exist.










At the end, all I  want to say is that  NO MATTER HOW ROUGH THE JOURNEY OF OUR LIFE IS, IT IS SURE TO TEACH YOU SOMETHING. ALL YOU NEED IS TO STAY HAPPY, FAKE A SMILE FOR A WHILE AND HEAD STRONG. NOT TODAY BUT THERE WILL BE A DAY WHEN YOU WILL REALIZE WHAT HAVE YOU LEARNED FROM ALL THE DISAPPOINTMENTS YOU HAVE FACED TILL NOW AND THEY HAVE MADE YOU A MUCH BETTER PERSON THAN WHAT YOU MIGHT HAVE THOUGHT YOU COULD BE.!

ALL THE BEST! ;)